The complication in any type of modern warfare is the identification of the enemy. In previous centuries, the opponents lined up on opposite fields and shot at each other until one side was completely dead or too injured to continue. However, in the wars of the 21st century, the enemies hide in civilian territory, jump from country to country and refuse to affiliate with a specific organization or group.

This, of course, makes the war much more dangerous. We are tricked, trapped and cornered in our chase of the elusive enemy.

The scariest aspect of the unknown enemy is that our simple minds can’t comprehend the concept. After Sept. 11, Americans across the country were blaming all Muslims for the attack because we needed to blame someone.  Of course, this is an extremely ignorant stereotype that severely physically, socially and emotionally hurt thousands of Muslim Americans.

In an ideological war – that is, one that does not include guns and armies but protest signs and presidential debate questions –the loss of a clear enemy is just as dangerous. In 2011, one of these ideological wars was officially declared in Minnesota.

Last year in the archives I found a letter to the editor from the 1970s discussing the rights of homosexuals. Forty years later, a pivotal battle in the war will take place. In November, Minnesotans will vote on whether marriage needs to be legally defined as a union between a man and a woman.

I support everybody’s right to stand proudly with their ideological infantry, regardless of which side they’re on. However, to avoid shooting at our allies, we need to make sure we know who the enemy is. On one side we have homosexuals and their proclaimed allies. However, not all thespians, flaming liberals or even friends and families of homosexuals are going to “Vote No” this November. There are plenty of people who believe gay people should be loved and treated with respect, but gay marriage changes their beliefs of “traditional marriage,” or they’re afraid that gay marriage would lead to tax fraud.

Looking at the other side of the battle lines we have … conservatives? Well, no. Republican state representatives John Kriesal and Tim Kelly both serve on the board for Minnesotans United and represent a large population of fiscally conservative and socially liberal people. Christianity? There are thousands, like myself, that are both Christians and allies. I feel embarrassed when gay activists call the church hateful, and I would like to apologize for all burned bridges and offenses. I would also like to invite them all to my church, which accepts everyone fully, with open arms.

I’m excited for the lively debate I’m sure we’re going to have on campus this fall regarding gay rights.  These moments help shape my own opinions and get people to participate in politics. But PLEASE, know that there is no single group that all share the same ideas about gay rights. Please refrain from making any sweeping generalizations. I don’t want anyone to be caught in the crossfire this fall.

And, if it’s not too much to ask, try to understand that your “enemy” is probably a regular, intelligent, kind human being that just happens to disagree with you on a single topic.

Despite their beliefs, treat them with respect.